Our history

25 years of consulting about leading boarding schools

Toechter und Soehne
How it all began

Dr. Kulessa founded Toechter und Soehne in 1999 together with his wife Agnes. After completing his studies, he became a consultant for a number of renowned boarding schools in Germany through his professional activity in marketing.

First contact with boarding schools

Dr. Kulessa hat Töchter und Söhne 1999 zusammen mit seiner Frau Agnes gegründet.

Nach dem Studium der Pädagogik und Anglistik in Frankfurt, Newcastle und an der Yale University avancierte er durch seine Berufstätigkeit im Marketing zum Berater einer Reihe renommierter Internate in Deutschland.

Before launching Toechter und Soehne, Dr. Kulessa worked for many years in marketing as a consultant, also for various renowned boarding schools in Germany. With the founding of Toechter und Soehne, he and his team wanted to support parents in planning their child's school career. The most important motivation was the positive experiences that Agnes and Detlef Kulessa had as boarding school parents. They can both still relate very well to what it is like to send their child to one of the leading boarding schools at a young age.

This requires courage, especially from the parents. Toechter und Soehne wants to encourage and support you in summoning up this courage. For your child.

‍In mid-2022, Dr. Kulessa transferred the management of the company completely to his daughter Janka Zoeller and is more convinced than ever that Toechter und Soehne can act as a “matchmaker” to bring the expectations of parents and children and the educational offer of the schools into the best possible alignment. Naturally, he will continue to support his daughter Janka Zoeller with his experience.

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“When we picked up our then 9-year-old daughter from the 14-day summer camp, she told us:

»I'm going to boarding school here next year.«

“We were speechless. What had we done wrong? We thought we were a happy family. Janka at boarding school? Unthinkable! At first, we refused to even acknowledge the request. Slowly, very slowly, we began to understand. With our daughter's persistence, we became more willing to accept the idea and see boarding schools as an opportunity for our child. We finally overcame our own fears and let go. And we have never regretted this step. Janka attended a leading boarding school from the sixth grade onwards. And she made the most of thisr opportunity. Every single day.”
Detlef und Agnes Kulessa | IBoarding school parents

How Toechter und Soehne has developed

In the beginning, Toechter und Soehne only consulted families about boarding schools in Germany. Satisfied parents then asked us to advise and support them in their search for boarding schools abroad, initially in the UK. So, in 2006 - after an information gathering phase that lasted more than a year - we began consulting parents about British boarding schools.

From then on, it was only a short step to add other English-speaking countries - Canada and the US - to our portfolio, especially as Dr. Kulessa had studied in the US himself. Students often asked us before they went abroad: Is my English good enough? This almost inevitably led to the development of our consultancy service for summer schools.

The next step in the development of Toechter und Soehne was again initiated by a family situation. The academic landscape had become so differentiated and complicated in the meantime - the Bologna Process had just been launched - that some of our daughter's classmates asked us for advice on planning their studies. With the private lecturer Dr. Thomas Nisslmueller, we were able to gain an experienced counsellor who was still teaching and who, together with Dr. Kulessa, set up the student counselling service. Here, too, we allowed ourselves more than a year of intensive preparation time.

After our daughter Janka joined the company as a consultant in 2012 and successfully consulted parents for 10 years, it was extremely easy for us to hand over the management of Toechter und Soehne completely into her hands in 2022. We wish her every success!

The next generation
takes over: Janka Zoeller

After graduating from boarding school, Janka studied at the American University in Paris and then completed her master’s degree at the Courtauld Institute in London. She joined the team of consultants in 2012 and management in 2018. In 2022, she took over Toechter und Soehne and has been solely responsible since then.

It's hard to believe that “little Janka”, who was still begging her parents to go to boarding school in 1996, is now advising parents on this important decision herself. But who could do this more competently than her? Why not give it a try and let her consult you about the subject of boarding school?

Johanna Lingenthal had already worked as a student intern at Toechter und Soehne in 2008. After successfully completing her studies at the LMU in Munich, she returned to Toechter und Soehne in 2014, this time as a consultant. Since 2024, she has also been supporting Janka Zoeller in the role of a Managing Director.

1994
Janka attends the first summer school at Schule Schloss Salem and concludes: “I'm going to school here next year”
Agnes and Detlef Kulessa found the boarding school consultancy in Wiesbaden. At that time, with one employee and a portfolio comprising 3 boarding schools
1999
2004
Tapping into the he British market, expansion of the boarding school portfolio, expansion of the team
Tapping into the North American market
2006
2008
Student advisory service, potential analysis and summer school consultancy round off the services on offer
Janka Zöller starts as a consultant in the international department
2011
2013
Relocation of the international department to Darmstadt
Janka Zoeller joins the
management team
2015
2022
Dr. Kulessa retires from active business, Janka Zoeller takes over as sole shareholder
Johanna Lingenthal is appointed to the management board
2024

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guidance

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Find out more about boarding schools in Germany, the UK, Canada, Switzerland and the USA in a personal conversation with our consultants.

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Application

How to apply to your dream boarding school

Our counselors will support you and your family from the start, regardless of whether your boarding school is in Germany, Great Britain, Canada, Switzerland and the USA lies.

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Beyond

After boarding school — our advice continues

If you want that, we will continue to support you in your educational career. During study counseling, potential analysis or continuing language courses.

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In a personal conversation with our consultants, find out more about boarding schools in Germany, Great Britain, Canada, Switzerland and the USA.

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